TERFs persist in childish accusations that trans people are silencing them, but exactly who is silencing who? The answer may surprise you...
The subtle violence of TERFism has in many
ways intensified in recent years. Making use of the panoptic effects of the
internet they trawl the web attempting to find ways to out and harass trans
people. Outing transguys who use video, harassing trans women on dating sites,
outing trans people to employers, outing trans children to their schools,
attempting to bully trans children by proxy through the parents of other
children are but a few of their cowardly tactics. Some TERF academics have even
threatened to deliberately introduce transphobic elements into their Gender
Studies courses, something that most students are likely to be able to see
through, but also something worth monitoring…
Yet in spite of all this in the topsy-turvy
universe of Planet TERF, where everything is the opposite; the myth that trans
people are attempting to ‘silence’ them is still propagated. Their use of the
panopticon, their lies, their threat to indoctrinate students, their myths of
silencing are all they have left.
The reality, of course is quite the
opposite. Harassment of trans people who argue against TERFs is common, and
recently they have used legal threats to try and silence us and our friends and
supporters. Prosperous, white, cisgender, secure, middle-class TERFs using
their positions of privilege to silence and intimidate trans people from much
less privileged backgrounds.
Yet TERF attempts to silence trans people
have not stopped there; some are now attempting to deny trans people the
language we need to articulate, describe and make sense of our circumstances. TERF
efforts to argue that “TERF” (Trans Exclusionary Radical Feminist) is an insult
or a discriminatory word are matched in their dishonesty by their attempts to
convince that dwindling group of people who will listen to them, that
“cisgender” is supposed to be an insult rather than a simple descriptor of
people who are not trans; no more of an insult than “heterosexual”.
Violence can be overt, covert, tacit,
abusive, subtle or indirect, but the ideology of TERFism now requires its use.
As its core ideology has failed it cannot exist without becoming more abusive,
violent, and complicit in atrocities perpetrated by groups that are the enemies
of feminism. TERF arguments against the existence of trans people have all been
comprehensively discredited, and remain so no matter how often they are
restated. Once you strip away the veneer of argument and discredited
justifications, all that remains is the raw hatred. This is what TERFism has
become.
But the tide is turning, and it is the
activities of the TERFs, which are now centre stage. So TERFs now regularly
delete or conceal their own material from the internet as it is used by trans
people to demonstrate to others exactly what they are like. I recently needed to explain to a neutral
journalist about the TERF problem, all I had to do was point him in the
direction of a couple of TERF hate-sites and lend him my copy of The Transsexual Empire. He called me the
next day saying “I see exactly what you mean, I had no idea!” They claim trans
people are silencing TERFs, yet the truth is that TERFs are now silencing themselves as trans people use
TERF material to expose their hate.
So let the TERFs speak, (although they
should still be no-platformed, which is different from censorship) they condemn
themselves by their own utterances. Some of the material published in
faux-radical online magazines this year has been particularly valuable for exposing
TERFism, especially when used in conjunction with other elements of their
output. Exposing TERFism has rarely been so easy.
But in a sense TERFs are right, trans
people do silence TERFs, but not in the way they would have others believe; we
silence them by getting up every morning, we silence them by interacting with
others everyday online, in our social lives and at work, we silence them by
marrying or living with our partners, we silence them by bringing up our
children, we silence them by telling our stories, we silence them by walking
the Earth as trans people have done for centuries before us, we silence them by
our very existence.